Indrid Cole

I write. I'm not an English major so my grammar may need work. Most of the stuff I post are thoughts or "words of the wise"/reflections for myself. Should you disagree with anything I say feel free to discuss. I am always open to alternative points of thought, I thrive on it. We learn more by accepting and opening ourselves to others opinions, especially if they disagree with our own.
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How is it okay to condemn people in incestuous relationships?

I consider that as bad as being anti-gay or anti-interracial.

The first argument people will spew is the chance of genetic disorder in the offspring. This is a mute point though. Genetic disorder only arrives after several generations of inbreeding specifically when those genetic disorders already exist within the genepool. Besides it would be unquestionable to refuse a mentally challenged person to mate and that offspring has a much higher chance at carrying a genetic disorder.

People seem to be all about fighting for the freedom of love. Yet so many still revile incest based on next to nothing.

There’s this girl. In my eyes she is immaculate.
I consider my written communication to be one of my greatest strengths and yet here I am unable to find the words to describe how I feel about her and what she means to me.
I love you.
I love you.
I love you.
She saves me from my mind and all that self-induced tortured.

Lately I’v been having thoughts based on the most common complaint my fellow humans present.
“My ethnicity/gender/sexuality/sub-culture/weight/religion makes society judge and ridicule me.”
It’s easy to see our plights in specific and for our emotions to exaggeration them and blind us from a fact,
Every human faces ridicule and every human ridicules.
We try to justify our judgements over others with various reasons but they are come back to the same origin, the thought that somehow what we have experienced in life makes our opinion and reflections the correct ones.
There are not equality rights problems. There are general human rights problems.
Everyone for various reasons gets shit on.


So I plan to make this blog more active. Feel free to follow my regular blog at boyfriendsalad

Is there any way to change your default posted blog?

So if i choose to reblog something the first blog that comes up is my other.

Anonymous asked: Thank you for your honest and articulate response. And I'd like to say that I applaud your insight and meaningful thoughts. I do agree with everything you said. Now let's say people treat their enemies in a certain negative way and this is indeed a reflection of who they truly are as a person. Do you think that, despite consciously choosing to act that way, they come to regret it? And does that reflect as well? Have you ever regretted treating an "enemy" in a negative way? Example? -G.H.

Some people do indeed come to regret the way they have treated an enemy. People are in a constant of change so it is entirely natural. Someone who learns to regret will tend to have a stronger inspiration to stay steady to being kind and treating others with courtesy. This may be in due of guilt and humility.
Yes I do regret the way I have treated people in the past. In my youth I was brainwashed by religion. This led me to be unjust to more than a few people. I try not to feel too guilty by what happened in the past. It is irrelevant because I can actually choose to change the future.

Anonymous asked: You previously said: "The truth of who you are is how you treat your enemies". Out of pure curiosity and desire for discussion, how do you treat yours? I enjoy your thoughts and would like to hear more, if that is acceptable. -G.H.

In the past? Maybe shamefully. As I have grown more mature I don’t really encounter enemies. To be fair I’m not a particularly dramatic person, nor do I go out an meet a lot of people. I’m pretty secular and when I don’t really get along with people I don’t need to be around them ever.

I’m also really mellow and a tad emotionally detached, I don’t get mad very easily.

When I clash heads with someone I tend to fight them with niceness. I could pretend I’m altruistic but really I think it’s really funny because people tend to become frustrated and defeated if you are just really nice.
I was mugged once. That kind of situation is a bit different. I was drunk and there were six people so I didn’t really fight back. In an able situation I would fight back to the best of my ability. They say to just hand over your money and go. I don’t think I could do that… Maybe if they had a knife or gun.
If someone absolutely threatened the life and health of me and/or certain people I care about, I would do whatever I saw fit to protect them or myself.


Let’s explore this question a little deeper.
In a situation of war. What do you do with prisoners?
This gets more complicated. What if you need information? Torture? I’m not sure if I feel comfortable when I consider what I might be able to do if I was in that situation.
I don’t believe myself the most moral person.

The quote is equally reflective of me and my true nature.

Everyone will bend over for their friends. Be generous and loving and make them smile. But how someone treats someone they are clashing, competing, fighting against is a reflection of them. Noble but stupid? Cruel and vindictive? Shy away and ignore? Charm and manipulate? I think this is more reflective of a humans personality than the way they may treat a friend or colleague.

Long sorry. I found the subject covering several assets. 

Time and time again the evidence continues to lead against emotion. Time and time again i find my own fading within me.